Although you feel an intense desire for an authentic life partner, you have to realize that enjoying the narcissist isn’t your destiny. Our codependency and hope
We alone are responsible for our fate. A narcissist prevents us from seeking our true destiny through tactics such as faking the future, or producing the illusion that we are their soulmate. In fact, a narcissists task on this planet is to convince us that it is our destiny and in the romance department, we begin to believe that we can not do better than what this person supplies.
Then we begin to confuse accountability for our fate and so we live life waiting for quiet remedies or become smothered in this narcissistic lifestyle of lying.
The simple truth is that a relationship with a narcissist is never going to get better, but life without any connection or contact is the first step towards happiness and freedom. Which of those fates would you prefer?
Read this simple message about our role in this creation of fate with caution: there are those of us who believe that our lives are predestined and that we should resign ourselves to our lot in life. However, the truth is, that choosing what our fate will be is up to each of us. While each of us is born with a purpose of life, it is up to us to decide whether we are going to say yes or to not to fulfill it.
Just like whenever we choose what to eat, who to keep company with, and whether or not to turn right or left every day when we leave our home, Choosing to say yes to your fate is a decision that can only be made when you take action to make that choice a reality. Whether you think it’s your destiny to be a parent, an adventurer, an artist, a pioneer, or a religious guru, saying yes to your destiny is just the first step. M